Mom Diaries: Confession of a Stay at Home Mom- Learning How to Let Go and Relax

"Journey of Stay at Home Mom Series" 


Learning How to Let Go and Relax


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Hi Warrior Chic’s! 


Today, I'm starting a journal series (nothing deep just expressing how I feel)  at times being a trucker wife and stay at home mom. Feel free to leave your on story or comment if what I post during the "Journey of Stay at Home Mom Series" resonate with your soul. 


In the beginning we are so happy; many of us don’t focus on anything but our children needs. We have a long list of expectations that we want to guide us through our parenting stages. The sad truth is that most of us, including you, will not achieve these goals. You will not stick to your so call parenting guide.



The reason being is because all children are different in you will have to deal with them all differently. The real question is what are you going to do about your life when your lists of expectation are not being fulfilled?



Parenting is another one of life lessons, one which some can handle and sad to say some can not. Your little angels will not act like a robot, they will act up in public when you least expect it, in they will be angels in your private alone times. They will kick in scream for a toy, sweets whatever. They will test you and your list of expectation!



Your children are here to test your will, your “free will” I should say. How you react to different situation. They are here to teach you, if you clam down long enough to ask yourself what it is that you are in the middle of learning. Ask yourself “what am I here to learn from this



You will look at parenting and life much differently. It is very important to remember that life on earth is our classroom and parenting is one of the courses that you signed up to take. You will have test, quizzes, challenge questions, and pop quizzes, which are your obstacles you must face to get you to another level. It’s up to you if you fail life test or graduate by doing the best you can!



To make life easier calm down, pay attention to what the universe is trying to show you, and find a better way to handle all of the pressure that you have taking this course. Life is hard and it will get even harder. After you think you have passed one test, there will be another one just around the corner.



Once you think you have mastered one skilled you will find yourself trying to master another that may be even more unbelievable to achieve than the first one. I don’t mean to be hard on you, but I don’t want my words to be easy on you, or myself, either.



I am here to cheer you on and encourage you as much as I can. I am here to help you think and see clearly through life course; although you have to do your part then the universe will take care of the rest.



I encourage you to change the way you have been thinking. Stop doing the things that have been hindering you progress. Stop wishing for a better life or better kids. You asked for everything that you have. Look at it as it really is a blessing.




There are people who would kill to be a mom. All you have to do is stop complaining and get out there and create a better life. Focus on the solutions. Focus on the blessing. Focus on learning more and realizing that you are in a parenting course that will last a lifetime and that you can and will handle the obstacles and challenges. Wherever you are in life, be grateful, be thankful. Be happy with all the moments of your life.


Be Inspired to Love Yourself
Warrior Chic


XOXO

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