Girlfriend of Truck Driver: How to Not Marry for the Wrong Reason



Your family is pressuring you into Marriage?

 Growing up every girls dream was to walk down the ale. Thinking about the moment makes your cheeks glow. Picture yourself in a Cinderella gown and beautiful pumps. My dreams were with stiletto! As you walk down the ale everyone smiles and says, “Oh, she is beautiful! Your Prince stands tall watching his Princess come to the thorn to be by his side.

 Meantime life goes on! You graduate from high school. You move away and attend college. This is modern day madness. You have your career on your mind and goals to complete. Reality steps in! “You realize, I don’t won’t to get married” I want to focus on my dreams first!

 You dread going home on the holidays because your family is constantly on your case. Asking, when you are going to settle down and get married, have kids? Meanwhile, you have your unhappy Aunt tapping you on your shoulder telling you, “take your time…it isn’t what you expect it to be!

 Then your mom responds. Marriage is what you make it, looking down at your Aunt, glancing back up at your uncle. You sit back, glance at your watch, wishing the day was over, so you can leave. And then simply explain, again. “I’m not ready for marriage; I’m focus on my career right now!

 Unfortunately! Marriage isn’t for everyone. Marriage can be a beautiful experience. Although, there’s no set schedule for marriage-if it’s meant to happen, it will happen when it’s supposed to.
If you have your own goals, that you would like to achieve before you take on other responsibility, this is your choice. No one should be pressured into doing something that they aren’t ready to do, or even having second thoughts about doing.

 It’s just plain ridiculous to get married because others are constantly pressuring you. Take a stand and do what you believe in. this is your life. You control your journey. We have to take time to love ourselves. Only then, will you be able to love others.
Don’t let people or certain types of programming cover up who you really are? In other words, your “trueself” should be the only voice you react to. 

 So no matter what you go through in life, remember that you always have options; marriage and kids could or could not be one of them.
It’s totally up to you. You have your entire lifetime to make the decision. Don’t ever make decision under pressure. It is easier to plan for a dream than it is to walk in the dream of others.

 The trucking Lifestyle is for the strong and independent. It takes a special woman to live this lifestyle and even stronger one to live a long distance married life. Think carefully before you jump into this world!

 I'm here to help if you need me.

Warrior Chic
XOXO

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