9 Ways to Strength Your Motivation to Improve Your Long Distance Marriage

                                         My Wedding Day in Jamaica

In the last post we talked about what motivation is and the importance it is for long distance marriages. Today we will look at ways to strengthen motivation.  

What it look like to be motivated.

Lack of motivation means lack of enthusiasm, zest and ambition, whereas the possession of motivation is a sign of strong desire, energy and enthusiasm, and the willingness to do whatever it takes to achieve what one sets out to do.

A motivated person is a happier person, more energetic, and sees the positive end result in his or her mind.

What can you do to strengthen your motivation?

1. Set a goal. If you have a major goal, it would be a good idea if you split it into several minor goals, each small goal leading to your major goal. In our case it would be our 30 day challenge to think positive about our spouse and marriage.
   
   By dividing your goal into several, smaller goals, you will find it easier to motivate yourself, since you will not feel overwhelmed by the size of your goal and the things you have to do. This will also help you feel that the goal is more feasible, and easier to accomplish. Each morning for the next 30 days I will find something to compliment my husband for. For example, I will thank him for all that he does for us as a father and husband. I will thank him for providing for our needs. I will call him just to say hi and ask how his day is going. I will focus on simple ways to celebrate him and our marriage and have a surprised dinner ready for him when he returns home from over the road.  
2. Understand that finishing what you start is important. Hammer into your mind that whatever you start you have to finish. Develop the habit of going to the finish line.
3. Socialize with achievers and people with similar interests or goals, since motivation and positive attitude are contagious. Associate with motivated people, who share your interests.
4. Never procrastinate anything. Procrastination leads to laziness, and laziness leads to lack of motivation.
5. Persistence, patience and not giving up, despite failure and difficulties, keep the flame of motivation burning.
6. Read about the subjects of your interest. This will keep your enthusiasm and ambition alive. Note: If you plan a surprise date night for when your hubby return this will keep your mind occupied with loving, positive thoughts majority of the month. 
7. Constantly,affirm to yourself that you can, and will succeed within your married life.
8. Look at photos of things you want to get to enhance your bedroom, things you want to achieve as a couple and things you guys can do together for fun. This will strengthen your desire and make your subconscious mind work with you.
9.  Visualize your goals as achieved, have  your wedding photo in your hand while this will add a feeling of happiness and joy.

Be Inspired

Warrior Chic

XOXO